I was writing madly away at my job on my latest book…okay, so yeah, writing is not technically work I am paid for at that location but I feel as I’m at work I may as well do anything I deem ‘work.’ Writing erotica is work to me as my actual paid job is work so both are interchangeable and doable in my job. Yeah, I know it wouldn’t stand up in court but I’d still argue it…anyway, I was writing this dialogue that was pretty damn dirty to suit a particular situation between the two lovers – nah, no one has ever sprung me (caught me out) at work writing - and I thought ‘boy oh boy you have a mouth on you Amarinda. That’s terrible…sexy but terrible.’ I felt bad about my behaviour for maybe all of 4 seconds but I got over it and kept writing.
Other erotic romance writers, I’m sure, will agree that when you write erotica words come out of your mouth that you would not even think of saying usually. Okay, I might, but I would hesitate for a moment depending on the audience. And, it’s actually a lot of fun to say all these normally vulgar words in a sexual setting between your two characters. It’s like when you’re flirting or with your lover. Its part of the whole fun of sex and letting someone know in graphic terms just what you plan to do to them to make them hot and wild. It’s letting inhibitions go and being yourself for a crazy moment. I reckon that’s pretty powerful being able to do that with another human being. Okay, yes, sure, maybe you’re all more sedate than me. Maybe I’m the only naughty one who says terrible things. I suspect not…
So why do you think people get off on saying all these sexually explicit words to entice, tease and make you giggle…yeah, some make me laugh because I can imagine the looks you would get if you said them in normal conversation. You want to do what? I tend to think it’s the freedom to be a little mad, a little bad and let go of all hang-ups and just go a little crazy with your lover. So, it’s kind of fun writing it and reading it. A little mad’s not a bad thing is it? I think not…
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Other erotic romance writers, I’m sure, will agree that when you write erotica words come out of your mouth that you would not even think of saying usually. Okay, I might, but I would hesitate for a moment depending on the audience. And, it’s actually a lot of fun to say all these normally vulgar words in a sexual setting between your two characters. It’s like when you’re flirting or with your lover. Its part of the whole fun of sex and letting someone know in graphic terms just what you plan to do to them to make them hot and wild. It’s letting inhibitions go and being yourself for a crazy moment. I reckon that’s pretty powerful being able to do that with another human being. Okay, yes, sure, maybe you’re all more sedate than me. Maybe I’m the only naughty one who says terrible things. I suspect not…
So why do you think people get off on saying all these sexually explicit words to entice, tease and make you giggle…yeah, some make me laugh because I can imagine the looks you would get if you said them in normal conversation. You want to do what? I tend to think it’s the freedom to be a little mad, a little bad and let go of all hang-ups and just go a little crazy with your lover. So, it’s kind of fun writing it and reading it. A little mad’s not a bad thing is it? I think not…
www.amarindajones.com
www.amarindajones.blogspot.com
Be daring...read an Amarinda book
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Yep. Naughty words do it every time. Where else are you gonna use 'em?
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